Charis Around the World
Childbirth in Kenya
by Jannekah Guya, Charis midwifery student
Martin and Jannekah Guya, Ezriel, Adali Lynn
and Amariah
If a midwife loves anything in this world,
I would say she loves life. Vibrant, thriving, natural, healthy, life.
We are guardians of life. Ushers of life. Advocates for life.
So the past many many months I have been and felt COMPLETLEY out of my element
as I’ve spent nearly every waking moment at the hospital, surrounded by death
and the dying. Technically, death is out of a midwife’s scope of practice
and having to stare its sting in the face day after day after day sure makes me
appreciate and love a ministry of life more than ever.
The same Pastor who I wrote about in
last month's Charis newsletter is named Pastor Ben. He was in a
horrible car accident 3 months ago, just 6 days after I spent the day with him
that I wrote about. He was paralyzed in the accident and after a couple
weeks in the hospital suffered a stroke that left him in a coma. He had
been in ICU since and we have been with him and his family keeping vigil and
trying to help ease the many logistical burdens almost every single day.
Many times people passed away right in front of us while we were at the
hospital. It was excruciating watching the loved ones weep and display
their raw, unbridled grief. Often we’d become friends with the loved ones
of other ICU patients. There’s a comradely that develops when you’re all
going through something so traumatic. It was devastating to see the
suffering and an honor to offer the love and hope of Jesus where we could – by
example, in action, and in word. But in the back of my heart I always knew
our day for mourning might come and I dreaded it. I jumped every time my
phone rang, thinking it could be “the call.” And then it happened.
Last week I got a late night call from the doctor saying that we needed to get
to the hospital immediately. I expected the worst. It felt like an
eternity before I finally arrived in the ICU wing I regrettably now know so
well. I could hear the Pastor’s wife wailing from the door and I knew my
worst fear was confirmed. Many of their spiritual children stood outside
the door, silent, with tears running down every face. I joined them.
Pastor Ben had been more of a father to my husband than his biological father
ever was. He was the first man to ever hug my husband and tell him he
loved him. He was the first man to see greatness in my husband. He
led my husband to the Lord when my husband was a VERY lost 16 year old boy, and
sent my husband to Bible school, where I met him. A couple years later he
presided over our marriage.
Pastor Ben and his wife with Martin and I
on our wedding day.
He was the closest person to a
father-in-law I’ve ever had. God has used Pastor Ben to single handedly
play probably the biggest role in facilitating my life being all that it is
today. It is a HUGE loss to us personally and a massive blow to the entire
East African community. The Vice President of Kenya will be presiding over
a memorial service for Pastor Ben tomorrow. Pastor Ben touched hundreds of
thousands of lives all over the world. He has overseen the planting of
hundreds of churches.
Pastor Ben telling people about Jesus at an
evangelistic crusade.
He has opened many orphanages and feeding
stations for the needy. He has led thousands and thousands to the Lord and
has personally discipled many of them. He has three young daughters and a
beautiful wife he has left behind. He was only 51 years old. I was
convinced he was the kind of guy who would grow to be a super old, decrepit
great grandpa.
Pastor Ben's wife and daughters.
As believers, the blow of death is greatly
softened. Because of Jesus’ unfathomable work of love on the cross, we
know we’ll see Pastor Ben again soon. It’s only that he’s gone home ahead
of us, and to be honest, I’m pretty jealous that he is free from this world and
dancing with Jesus this very moment. I am so thankful and excited that one
day I’ll join them. I’ve come to realize that when the Bible says, “Oh
death, where is your sting?” it’s refereeing to the dead. There is no
sting for Pastor Ben. He is free from his broken body, the burdens and
sorrows of this world, and he is home where he has always belonged. But
his homegoing stings for those of us left behind, still waiting and still
homesick. His leaving will leave an unfillable void in our hearts and in
this world. We will miss him every day for the rest of our lives.
But we will finish out our days on this earth striving to honor him and honor
God by carrying on the work he taught us to do.
We say our final goodbye this weekend, and then, the circle of life continues.
While Pastor Ben was still fighting for his life in the hospital, we found out
God has blessed us with another sweet baby, due mid-June. We are so
thankful and so blessed. Our three children are ecstatic. Maybe if
it’s a boy, we’ll name him Ben.
Dearest Pastor Ben in the hospital.
Many people
die at twenty five and aren't buried until they are seventy five.
They allow troubles of this World to kill them on the inside, they
are seen walking but with no sense of direction and purpose, which
makes them 'The Walking Dead'. I learned from my Papa Bishop
Ben Bahati to remain alive in Christ Jesus regardless of the
challenges we face. He fought the good fight, finished the
race, and kept the faith. All men of God always leave a
capability behind whenever they relocated to heaven. Elijah
left a mantle to Elisha, Moses left empowerment to Joshua, Jesus
left The Holy Spirit to us and Bishop Ben has left a fire burning in
all of us to reach out to souls with the gospel of our Lord and
Saviour Jesus Christ. He packaged it and called it 'FiftyMillion
Mandate!! Though painful it is, we have to accept God's will
with the understanding that death is the dropping of the flower that
the fruit may swell. Bishop left the fruit that gives God
glory, even at his funeral we've seen thousands give their lives to
Jesus.
Martin Guya
John 16:7 "But I tell you the truth, it is to your advantage that
I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you;
but if I go, I will send Him to you." |
Note from Editor: Pastor Ben
passed away on Nov 3.
Please pray with us for his friends and family as they grieve the loss.
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Our International Charis
Family
Your stories from around the world touch us and we pray for your
safety.
Thanks, Love and Blessings to every one of you!
'Behold, I will bring them from the north country, And gather them
from the ends of the earth,
Among them the blind and the lame,
The woman with child and The one who labors with child, together,
A
great throng shall return there...And My people shall be satisfied with My goodness, says the LORD.'
Jeremiah 31:8, 14~~~
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